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A Guest Post by Theta Mom & A Gorgeous Giveaway to Go With It

In celebration of Mother’s Day, this month we will be featuring a few of our favorite mama bloggers. First up is Heather from Theta Mom. She is taking the blogging community by storm with the sensational space that she’s set up at which mommies can comfortably dialogue.

When Kristin asked me to guest post for BonBon Rose Girls, I jumped at the chance because I adore this blog! I enjoy my visits here because I always get my fashion fix, accessory advice, and the latest trend posts and just feel like a “girl” again. Being a busy mom, sometimes I have to force myself away from the traditional yoga pants and t-shirt ensemble so I thought I would mix this post up a little – giving you ladies some Sex and the City meets motherhood – in true Theta Mom style.

I’ve been a huge fan of Sex and the City since the very beginning and what immediately drew me into this series was the show’s narration. Carrie Bradshaw’s musings about relationships, dating, and New York City were always so emotional and sensitive. At times, she was a bit dramatic and somewhat over-analytic, but to me, this narration was always authentic. She shared moments explicitly and expressed exactly what she was thinking and feeling, even when the truth hurt. Although she may have appeared jealous, clingy, or insecure at various points throughout the show, she truly communicated real and raw emotions as she was experiencing life and relationships.

This is exactly what I experience as a Theta Mom. I admit the fact that this motherhood gig isn’t always glamorous and easy. I narrate my own story with raw emotion and sensitivity through my blog. And for all of you moms out there, don’t we sometimes over-analyze the situation, especially when it comes to our children? Don’t we feel sometimes insecure that the job we are doing may not be enough? Don’t we sometimes second-guess ourselves in the process? Isn’t this true authenticity?

Although her bank account doesn’t reflect the majority of Theta Moms, if Carrie Bradshaw was really pregnant, she would probably wear the most adorable, chic, and trendy maternity clothes similar to this look.

Regardless of her style, the moment she becomes a mother, I picture Carrie changing diapers for the first time and recognizing the not so glamorous aspect of motherhood.

I imagine her agonizing over the reality of sleepless nights and freaking out about her postpartum figure.

As a result of having a baby, I envision the description of her post-partum sex life, or lack thereof.

I can see her shopping at Barneys, unable to purchase the latest Jimmy Choo heels because her newborn could really use the money more.

I imagine her disappointment when she must decline attending a premier event because her baby suddenly became ill.

I predict that she will be torn between work and home, desperately trying to find a balance to make it all work…

But I also envision Carrie trying to find the right words to share the most amazing experience she’s ever encountered, attempting to describe the kind of love she’s never felt before for another human being.

I imagine Carrie dreaming of her newborn and finding herself more centered as a mother, allowing her life to be more about her baby than her own.

I see her making sacrifices, learning from her mistakes and demonstrating the way her life has been forever changed…for the better.

Carrie Bradshaw would be a Theta Mom.

So if she ever becomes pregnant, maybe I should congratulate her…and then welcome her to the club.

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A huge thank you to Heather for her lovely words! If you moms out there don’t already know about her blog, which I doubt, get thee over there pronto. It’s mommy blog heaven!

To go along with this amazing guest post, we have a giveaway from another fabulous mama. Amy blogs about her adventures with two cutie patootie munchkins and she just recently opened up the gorgeous Etsy shop Evy’s Tree. She specializes in tees and hoodies and I guarantee most everyone will find something they absolutely love there! Amy has generously offered up anything that is in stock in her shop to one lucky winner. That’s right. The winner will get to pick out anything her (or his) heart desires!

To enter, please visit Evy’s Tree and tell us which item you would choose. For extra entries you can follow or subscribe to our blog, “like” us on Facebook, follow us on Twitter and/or tweet about the giveaway. We will keep this open through next Thursday. Best of luck lovelies and happy Friday!

p.s. My lil‘ sis reminded me that the National Stamp Out Hunger Food Drive is tomorrow 5/8/10. Leave a bag of nonperishable food by your mailbox and your postal service carrier will take the food to the local food bank! So easy! Here is the link:

p.p.s. I’m guest posting over at Cherry Blossoms {the blog} today! Big hugs if you come say hi.


  1. Aritza, Goddess of .. says

    Really, Carrie with a baby ? I don't know, it's so hard to envision .. well maybe .. I guess it would make sense. Oh boy !

    Anywho, I love the Anchor sweatshirt .. since anything nautical makes me positively LOSE MY MIND 🙂 Hahaha ! I think it's gorgeous!!

  2. Aritza, Goddess of .. says

    And I "like" you, LIKE you .. on facebook !

    Thanks for the terrific giveaway 🙂 You've outdone yourselves girls !!

  3. theUngourmet says

    The hoodies are so darling! I love the one with the owl! I must show my daughter this one. Great giveaway!

  4. Betty says

    Great guest post!
    I love all of the tees.
    Love the pink.
    Hope you have a fab Friday!
    B xx

  5. Tiffany says

    ooh, thanks for introducing me to this store, I love the "lacey tee" I might just order one right now and pick something else out if I win! 🙂

  6. chelsea rebecca says

    and love carrie bradshaw! always!!!

    my favorite is the grey brilla top! INCREDIBLE!

    crossing my fingers!!!

  7. Lilly says

    The Winter Love is so gorgeous! I love it <3
    Thanks a lot for the chance.
    eli_green22 at yahoo dot com dot br

  8. smittenbystyle says

    Hey love your blog! Read about the latest in fashion from India & who wore what only on Smittenbystyle

  9. Lauren says

    So loveley! That mini red brilla rocks…along with the other yummies! Oh, and the girls fit! Yippee! I'll send pix in a few days…off to run a 1/2 marathon this weekend, so crazy! I puffy heart the top though!

  10. Jenni says

    I LOVE AMY! So excited to see her on the BonBon Rose this morning!

    I would love the Lacey Tee! It is my personal fav!

  11. Cat says

    What a great post…I adore SATC…all the girls but especially Carrie!!!!

    The second jacket with the flowers is amazing!!!! I LOVE it…for reals 🙂

    Happy Friday!

    xo Cat

  12. Rebecca says

    The "Kate – White" is too cute for words!! Such a great etsy find – now I'll know where to go for my friends' birthday presents! woohoo!!

  13. Kmama says

    Great post Heather! I love SATC, especially Carrie Bradshaw. I can't wait for the SATC 2 to open…I'm taking my mom out to lunch and to the movie as her Mother's Day present.

  14. Pamela says

    Could you just die when seeing poor Carrie go to try on her shoes, post baby, only to find that her feet have grown?!

  15. Lady Baker says

    First, I loved the guest interview! I'm going to head over that way, even though I'm not a mommy! haha!

    Second, I love the anchor hoodie! It looks so comfy!

    Follow you ladies on just about everything you're on! haha!

  16. Lady Baker says

    First, I loved the guest interview! I'm going to head over that way, even though I'm not a mommy! haha!

    Second, I love the anchor hoodie! It looks so comfy!

    Follow you ladies on just about everything you're on! haha!

  17. Pooch Morning Glory says

    great post…. thanks theta mom for your insight into carrie as a mom. it will be fun to see if it happens i love authenticity. thx

    i love the kate-chocolate, or white

  18. Pooch Morning Glory says

    and, thank you for the opportunity
    i already follow, and like it on facebook

  19. Jolie says

    thank you for introducing me to such a great blog! I would pick the mini Ronnie for my little Tristan. Too cute!
    Im a follower here and on FB!


    OMG what a wonderful giveaway! She has fabulous things…so hard to choose one but I'm going with the Lacey Tee. It's just gorgeous! Can picture wearing it all summer long 🙂

    And I really liked Heather's story 🙂

    Hope u have a good weekend dear! And I left u a little something on my blog today. Enjoy! xoxo

  21. Stacey says

    Wow, it's so hard to just pick one thing from her shop! Everything is beautiful. I LOVE The Lacey Tee! I am also a follower of your blog 🙂

  22. A.Co says

    WOW!! This is probably the best give-away I've ever seen! How generous!

    My faves (couldn't pick just one) are:
    – The Lacey Tee (in white)
    – The Anchor (hoodie)

    Thanks for offering up such a fantastic give-away, the Etsy shop is AWESOME and she has some great stuff!

    A.Co @ A.Co est. 1984

    PS – I'm already a follower

  23. rebecca says

    What a great shop! i thought it was going to be kids clothes since we had some mommy talk going on but what a nice surprise! i love the lacey tee! so cute!

    rwvanvoorhis at gmail dot com

  24. Erin @ SYL: Slipcover Your Life says

    LOVE LOVE LOVE SJP! Super excited about the giveaway too, digging the 'The Spring Love'! So girly and feminine!

  25. living well says

    The hoodies and tshirts are gorgeous! So feminine and pretty and perfect for spring! I love the Lacey Tee in pink. I'm a follower!

  26. alabaster cow says

    great post theta mom! i don't even like sex and the city (i know, blasphemy!) but i enjoyed your writing as always. 🙂

    and glad to be your newest follower! love the blog!

  27. valentine says

    what a great post! i have never really been into SATC, but i really enjoyed her take on carrie being a mom.

  28. Kristin @ My Uncommon Slice of Suburbia says

    I love the lacey tee in white and pink 🙂 Beautiful clothes, love the ruffles. Can't wait to see S in the city! We had a big girls night at my house when #1 came out on DVD, so fun!
    Thank you so much for stopping by my little space, I'm honored you came by! I'm really enjoying looking around your blog, wishing you a wonderful Friday!
    Take care
    Oh I'm your newest follower, thanks for having me

  29. Sara @ Domestically Challenged says

    I saw the Lacey tee and IMMEDIATELY loved it. I love the rest, but something about the style and such I loved it!>

  30. CailinMarie says

    oh fun etsy shop! I have a daughter in jr. high and wouldn't she look cute in these? I love the grey with hearts, winter love is was called? and the brillas- gosh and (!)
    came by this blog via Theta Mom.
    great fun!

  31. Writing Without Periods! says

    Love your blog. Thanks for the photos of "Carrie." I can't wait for the new Sex and The City movie.

  32. Kellie says

    I love the lacy tee and the grey brilla! Now I just have to have this baby so I can shop again! 🙂

  33. Hello! I'm Kate. says

    I'm a new follower! I love Sex & the City as well–I can't wait for May 27th , I will be first in line to see the girls on the big screen for their 2nd movie!!!

  34. Katy Mary says

    Great guest post! I love the lace tee and the anchor hoodie. Great take on what Carrie would be like after kids. Have a lovely weekend!! oh and I follow and I'm a facebook fan 🙂

  35. Len♥reNeverM♥re says

    Thanks for the reminder for Food Drive as well~ Fab weekend darling!
    ps: today was my first time guest blogging~ quite nervous about going over to someone's blog…for me that is~


  36. When Pigs Fly says

    Great to find a new blogger to follow. Plus I love the giveaway as always! So much fun. Will go over to Theta Mom and check her site out.

  37. Laura@Cowboy Boots says

    loved ur guest blogger! (ive always been a fan of hers) thanks for asking her and thanks to her for saying yes'ers!

    as for the giveaway! rock on this is totally up my alley!

    I'm adore the ribbon tee or black brilla hoodie!

  38. Crystal Escobar says

    I love Theta Mom, she's AWESOME!!!
    I want to win that Evy's Tree stuff!!! ME ME ME!!! So cute!!!!

  39. Rhiannon Nicole says

    The Brilla Black is to die for!! I adore her items, Kristin!! So pretty thank you for sharing. I will def have to buy something from her cutesy little shop 🙂 XO

  40. Dear Lillie says

    I would definitely get another hoodie for Lillie! We already have the Brilla in black and it is my favorite hoodie ever! Am planning in getting another one eventually so it would be so awesome to win one!

  41. Jules says

    Great giveaway and what a fantastic Etsy shop! Count me in. I adore The Lacey Tee. The romantic lace and ruffles is so pretty and girly. The Ribbon Tee is really great too.

  42. Lilly Rose says

    Hi Kristin,

    I am still far from becoming a mother, yet I appreciate how you describe the effects upon the "lifestyle" of a woman. But I am sure having a baby males up for the losses in shopping time^^. I wish you a lovely day!


  43. gleenn says

    Great post! I am always having apprehensions on the the thoughts of motherhood but I am sure that it's something that I'd love to embrace when it comes. I'd be determined to be able to take care of myself despite motherhood.

    I'd like to win the The Anchor top. 🙂

  44. Sandy a la Mode says

    awwww what a fabulous post and giveaway! i love the The Kate hoodie in white! the detail is soo cute and i could always use more hoodies b/c i am always cold and i just LOVE layering!

  45. ~KS says

    THE ANCHOR!! I adore it. I am sooo hoping to win this one. I can already picture myself out on the boat wearing it 🙂

  46. Chic 'n Cheap Living says

    Wow, Theta mom is amazing – depicting the balance, vulnerability, and delicate learning process that (I imagine) moms must go through. Perhaps I'll be able to join the club some day. 🙂

    I love the lace tee in the shop!

  47. Cassie says

    Great post! I can't wait until the next movie comes out 🙂

    I love that Etsy shop-the black brilla is my favorite and I'm so glad she carries plus sizes!

  48. Brianna! says

    I adore the mini Rubix because it reminds me of my BESTIE who is obsessed with the silly cube!


  49. Allison says

    Omg, I can't believe I didn't see this post sooner! I don't think this giveaway could be more fabulous. I'm DYING over The Anchor, and the Kate White… so gorgeous!

  50. sandy says

    such beautiful items for a giveaway!! I would pick the Kate but I can't decide between white and chocolate both look lovely!!

  51. ~dawn says

    I absolutely love the Kate- chocolate or white, but the Anchor with the long cuffs is really comfy looking!

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